NOT YOUR REGULAR FAQ'S
Is my child just lazy?
No. A child that can will.What we perceive as “lazy” is just your kid’s way of saying, “Wow, this is really hard. Can one of you awesome adults help me out?”
How can you help us?
- Find what you need HERE. I have every topic under the OT parenting space.
- Get one of my workshops or trainings to get you started or finished. Some families use them to get started, and then they work with me directly. (Makes for a very efficient, AKA cost-effective solution.) Some families get a course or a workshop and get to work ASAP and don’t need the real me. Win-Win!
- Suppose you can’t find what you’re looking for, then set up a call with me HERE. Or skip 1 and 2 and set up a call.
How are you so calm with my child?
It’s my superpower. I am here to guide you and your child. So, if I have to wait and repeat to have a child achieve and win. Then I wait and repeat. It can take up to 90 seconds to get the response we need. P.S. I am not this way with my own family- ask them if you ever meet them.
Is it too late to improve their handwriting?
No. No. Nope. My Legible Handwriting for Kids Program is for kids seven and up. (By up, I mean all the way up.) I have helped adults with dysgraphia and even high schoolers taking their AP exams.
Is handwriting even important any more?
School-age children spend about 60 percent of their day writing. (Even during virtual learning.) If you’re the child struggling, the tired parent, or the frustrated teacher who has no idea how to help, a handwriting issue can become excruciatingly overwhelming for everyone. I created Miami Handwriting after almost 20 years in the therapy world, seeing kids struggle with handwriting and not getting the help they needed.
What does OT have to with executive functioning skills?
So much, my friend. OT and EF skills go together like peanut butter and jelly. So much that I clear it all up HERE
I spend a lot of time helping them after school and on weekends. So, my child does excellent in school. Do I still need to get them help?
Translation: My kid does well at school BECAUSE of all the support I give at home. If I am not there to help with ______ they can’t do it or do it well. Our goal is to have independent learners. So yes, you still need to get them help.
Shouldn’t we be doing more (practice, learning games, sticking to a schedule, writing)?
Repeat after me “Small Steps = Big Changes.” Small, consistent, doable experiences make the changes our kids need, and are sustainable for us busy, exhausted, have better things to do as parents. Your welcome!
Can't they just try harder?
Is handwriting even important?
No, this is not a typo. Yes, it is essential so much that I have a meaty Handwriting Resources Guide all about how important handwriting is. You should really check it out.
OK, I'm in! Now what?
If you related to many of these FAQs, then it was meant to be. Let’s work together!
Nicole provides parents a sigh of relief with Real Life solutions based in science and over 20 years of practice.
– Katie Cabanas, mom of 2 boys